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Monday, June 09, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 23: Busier and Busier

I feel like Alice in Wonderland, except instead of "curiouser and curiouser," the theme is busier and busier.  The rabbit hole analogy is about right, though!

Last week was — as advertised — a little freer, with more time at home.  I struggled with motivation for a few days when the weather was gloomy, but ended in a rush of productivity over the weekend!  (When the weather was nice — go figure.)  Looking back, it was a more successful week than I thought at the time, despite the rainy day blues.

Writing

Once again, I got four days of writing in last week, Monday through Thursday.  It's been a little tougher to maintain on the weekends because we've been working so hard on our garden and patio projects.  I also wrote two blog posts and posted twice on my author Instagram.  So all in all, I did pretty well at achieving my writing goals for the week.

Decluttering & Organization

The flower bed is mostly finished and I'm very happy with it!  The patio is also mostly finished; I just have a little general cleanup and junk removal to do, but it's in a usable state right now, which is everything.  Gardening and working on the patio is almost all we did over the weekend.

This coming week, I need to get to work on organizing and going through my doll stuff, partly because I've been wanting to work on my doll room next and partly because I need to get together what I want to sell at the pop-up doll shop coming up in two weeks (*gasp*).

Dolls

I thought I would make more progress on doll projects last week, but I didn't.  A great deal of it was because of my struggles with the weather and motivation.  If I had gotten more done those days, I likely would have gotten around to working on the dolls.

Taxes

I succeeded in working on my taxes catchup three days last week — just a little each time, but I feel good about starting to make a habit of it.

Lessons Learned

If there's any lesson here, it's probably that I need to not be so hard on myself when things don't go as planned.  Midweek I thought I was doing terrible at everything.  I had no motivation and felt so sluggish.  But as it turned out, I actually didn't do so badly last week.  I wrote four days, worked on taxes three, and got a whole lot done on my current "organization" project over the weekend.

This week I need to ramp up my time spent on doll projects.  I have a sale in just under two weeks and not a lot of time left to prepare!  I also need to do some social media marketing for the sale so that people need to come.  Sharing photos of current projects should help with that.

Other than that, I hope to keep up my habits of writing and working on taxes a little every day (ish), and also to keep working on decluttering and organizing around the house, especially with stuff that will help prepare me for the pop-up doll shop.

Wednesday, June 04, 2025

Gray Day Procrasti-nay-tion

Is there any particular circumstances, any sort of day where you just know you’re not going to get anything done?

For me, it’s the gray day™.

I woke up yesterday morning to a damp, overcast day.  It had poured overnight and threatened to rain more most of the afternoon.

And I struggled with motivation.  All. Day. Long.

It was not a surprise to me.  I’ve realized as an adult how much my mood is tied to the weather — or, probably more accurately, the sun.

My dad has a story about me in high school, probably about eight years after we moved to the Denver area.  He says (I don’t remember this) that he was driving me to school one winter morning, and I was looking out the window and said mournfully, “I haven’t seen the sun in three days.”  And he realized then that I’d become as heliotropic (dependent on the sun for my mood) as a native.

Living in Denver, where we get 300 days of sunshine a year*, we become really accustomed to enjoying sunshine year-round.  Even in the winter, our snowstorms alternate with bright, sunny days that melt snow and make the temperature feel much warmer than it actually is.

As a young teenager, I had been in Colorado long enough — and during formative years of my childhood — that I was starting to feel that connection to the sun.  And now, after nearly four decades in the state, I have realized how entirely dependent I have become.  I have never been an early riser, but I have noticed I get up earlier in the summer fairly naturally, and just in general tend to be more motivated and engaged when the days are longer.

Of course, not every day is bright and sunny, and on overcast days like yesterday I definitely feel the energy has been sucked out of me.

Ultimately, I did get a little writing done, but only about 60 words of my novel and two-thirds of this blog post.  I’m glad I tried, but I hope today will be better!  I was worried today would be a repeat of yesterday when I woke up to another overcast sky, but thankfully by midday the sun had come out.  We’re not out of the woods yet, as we have rain forecasted for later today and, honestly, for a lot of the days coming up — but I’ll take advantage of the sunshine motivation while I can!

*Note: The “300 days of sunshine a year” claim has been theoretically debunked by defining a “sunny day” as a “mostly clear or clear day,” that is, cloud cover over 25% or less of the sky.  I thoroughly disagree with this definition, because even on days that have, say, 50% cloud cover, it still feels like a “sunny day” because of how rapidly clouds tend to move across the sky in Denver due to air currents coming off the mountains.

Monday, June 02, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 22: Writing Starts NOW

Last week was a busy week, as advertised.  Between the shortened week, two trips out to the barn so my leaser’s daughter could ride, and a day of puppy sitting, there was a lot I didn’t get done.  I had expected it, but it’s still hard sometimes not to focus on everything I didn’t do.

Writing

I wrote four days out of seven, same as the previous week, which I’m pleased about.  I did not achieve my perhaps overly optimistic goal of 2,000 words per day.  I had a couple days of 400-600 words, and a couple days of 20-30 words, so while I did manage to keep up the habit (for the most part) I could stand to devote a little more time to it this week.

I also got a couple of blog posts finished, and a couple of social media posts on my author Instagram to go with them.

Decluttering and Organization

I knew I wasn’t going to have a lot of time to finish up the work on the garden, but between my busy week and the weather, I didn’t end up working on it at all.  I did, however, start some organization in the doll room, which I’m pleased about.  The toughest thing right now will be managing my impulse to abandon the garden half-finished so I can focus on the doll room.  I do hope to finish the major work on the garden this week, but it’s going to take some effort not to jump ship without finishing it.

Dolls

As expected, I didn’t have time to work on any doll projects last week.  I do need to get back to work on that this week, though, since I have the doll pop-up shop coming up at the museum in (gulp) just under three weeks.

Taxes

This category saw a surprising and dramatic increase this past week, and is probably part of the reason why I didn’t get to work on the garden.  On Saturday I started working on downloading records from PayPal, and ended up working on tax records for several hours.  It was satisfying to get a bunch of work done on that.  I still have a ways to go, but hopefully spending about four hours on it on Saturday will help to jumpstart momentum for the future.

Lessons Learned

Last week was a challenging week because it was so busy, but I think I did surprisingly well at managing it, all things considered.  This week should be much easier, thankfully, with fewer demands on me away from the house (but still a couple).  I want to take advantage of the chance to establish a good routine for working on both my novel and taxes catchup, and also hopefully use the opportunity (weather permitting) to finish up the garden.  And later in the week I hope to get going on doll projects, so that I have more dolls rehabbed in time for the pop-up shop on the 21st.

With that in mind, writing starts NOW!

Wednesday, May 28, 2025

RIP NaNoWriMo


Two months after announcing that NaNoWriMo would be shutting down due to funding issues, the site is down.  If you hadn’t yet saved your participation data, it appears that window is closed… assuming the site doesn’t resurrect itself, but that seems unlikely given the announcement at the end of March.

I don’t know exactly when the site went down, but it’s been sometime since last week, as I believe the last time I checked it was almost exactly a week ago.

I wrote last year about word count trackers to use as alternatives for NaNoWriMo.  I tried all of them during November, and settled on TrackBear as a clear favorite.  One of the advantages had been the ability to download your writing stats from the NaNoWriMo site, but of course that’s no longer a consideration.  Even so, I highly recommend TrackBear.  The only thing I think it’s missing is a progress widget.

NaNoWriMo may be officially gone, but the spirit of the challenge will persevere.  There are many of us who plan to maintain the local communities and even pursue the original challenge of writing a 50,000-word novel in November (or, really, any month — some communities are changing it to a month that makes more sense for them).

The Denver region intends to keep the original spirit of NaNoWriMo alive for our local participants.  We had already established a year-round write-in and, once the scandal broke last year, we started taking our region in a more independent, unaffiliated direction.  It turns out it’s a good thing we already started that process, as we’re fully on our own now!  We’ll see in the coming months what, exactly, the future of the Denver NaNoWriMo region will look like.

Tuesday, May 27, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 21: Revisiting My Goals

I knew last week would be rough, since I was working early mornings and long days both Monday and Tuesday.  I had intended Wednesday as a recovery day — since I know I need a chance to recover after something like that — but Wednesday ended up so full, between riding, barn chores, and haircuts, that I didn’t feel like it was much of a recovery day at all.  So I ended up taking Thursday as a recovery day, and I legitimately didn’t get much done on Thursday (by design).

Despite the challenges of the week, it wasn’t a bad week for my goals.

Writing

Last week saw a lot of writing.  I achieved my goal of a weekly blog post and Instagram post, of course, but I also wrote a piece for the doll museum’s newsletter, and I also worked on my novel four days out of the week’s seven.  Currently I have a three-day streak that I’m planning on extending to four days tonight, and hopefully keep going throughout the week.  Some of those days didn’t see a high word count, but over the weekend I had one day where I wrote nearly 2,000 words.  I also came to a realization that — but more about that later.

Decluttering and Organization

Once again, the only “decluttering” projects I accomplished this past week were in the garden.  We’re working on revamping the small flower bed, and I still need to finish cleaning up some of the detritus from years of disuse that are crammed into a corner of the patio.  That being said, lately I’ve been itching to work on the doll room, so I don’t think it’ll be long before I transition to working on that.

Dolls

Sadly, another week has gone by without any work on the dolls.  I do have that pop-up shop in four weeks, however, so I will need to get to work on them soon.  I don’t think it’ll be this week, since I’ll be pretty busy again this week, but next week I will need to start working on dolls again.

Taxes

I got back to work on sorting emails for taxes catchup, which I’m pleased about.  Hopefully I can keep that up.

Lessons Learned

On Saturday I started looking at the tentative writing, revising, and publishing schedule that I’d laid out months ago when I was making plans for when I want to self-publish.  I realized that after the paralysis that has plagued me for most of this year, I’m getting dangerously off-schedule.  I think I can still get back on track, but I’ll need to get my butt in gear if I’m going to still make the original schedule work.

With this in mind, I’m going to ramp up my writing expectations, even if that means backing off some of my other goals.  To finish my current novel’s first draft, I will need to write about 2,000 words a day — which normally would be a little bit of a challenge but doable; it’s just lately that writing that much a day (or writing every day, period) has become near impossible.

Saturday I nearly achieved that 2,000 words, but Sunday and yesterday I fell way short.  I will have to work hard at this if I want to get back on track and get this novel finished on time.

Unfortunately, this week is going to be a busy one: The friend I ride with is out of town, but her daughter leases from me one day a week too, so I’m taking her out to the barn to ride twice this week.  We rode together today and plan to ride again on Friday.  Combined with my day of puppy sitting tomorrow, that only leaves one day during the week to work on anything at home.  And the weekend will be busy, too, so I’m not going to have a lot of time for my goals.

With that in mind, I’m going to prioritize writing above all else.  If working on my novel is all I get done this week, that’s fine.  But if I have the time, I also want to work in the garden a little, mostly because I have a torn-up flower bed that needs to get righted and two plants that need to go into the ground ASAP.

Monday, May 19, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 20: Growing Habits

Despite my concern that I’d end up with a productivity hangover, last week turned out to be relatively busy and productive.  I struggle not to be too hard on myself, though, because while I did get a lot done, I tend to overschedule myself and then feel bad for not being able to accomplish all of it.  But honestly, last week I did good.

Writing

I made a decent comeback in my goal to write most days.  I worked on my novel four out of seven days last week, maintaining a six-day streak.  I only let it slide when I was working a lot on other projects over the weekend.  I also posted once to my author Insta.

To review (because this was months ago and probably forgotten by now), my goals for 2025 were to write at least 80% of the days and to post to my author IG at least once a week.  I’ve struggled with the near-daily writing goal, unfortunately, and am currently sitting at only 42%.  I’ve had more success with posting to IG once a week, but I’d like to actually expand that and do more.

Decluttering and Organization

I worked a lot on the patio and garden this past weekend.  We’re currently working on the smaller flower bed, with the goal of getting everything planted within the next couple weeks.  This is the flower bed that’s right next to the patio, which we’ve been cleaning up and setting it up to be a space we can use.  I intend to use the garden as a backdrop for doll photos, and to sit out on the patio to work sometimes.

Once the patio and small flower bed are done, I want to focus on organizing my sale stuff and getting ready for the next sale, a small sale at the museum in about a month.  After that, my next priority is to clean up and organize my doll spaces, including organizing the projects I currently have in progress so that I can get back to working on them.

Dolls

I didn’t work on any dolls last week, but I did work a lot on planning for the museum’s Fall Show in early September.  Like last year, I’ve scheduled a couple of doll programs and a workshop.  It was a lot of work at the last minute, but I’m pleased with the programming!

On Thursday I also toured the hotel that is hosting our Fall Show along with several other people from the committee, and returned on Friday to get pictures for the Fall Show packet.  The pictures turned out great!

And I suppose also on the subject of pictures, I took some time around midweek to get some good doll pictures.  I was feeling in a bit of a slump at that time of the week, so it was good to get pictures and feel like I was doing something productive, even if it was something fun.

Taxes

I didn’t get anything done on this last week, but plan to get caught up this week

Lessons Learned

I went through a slump midweek last week and was very hard on myself for not getting enough done, so it’s kind of a surprise to look back and see how productive and busy the week actually was.  It’s a reminder that 1) a sluggish day does not mean I’m unproductive the rest of the time, and 2) I’m too hard on myself with my expectations.  I know these things, but it’s good to remind myself of them occasionally to balance out how hard I am on myself.

This week is going to be a rough one.  I am working long days outside of the house today and tomorrow, and while it’s the kind of job that gives me plenty of time to work on other things, it’s also mentally fatiguing to be up early and “always on” for so much of the day two days in a row.  So I’m planning Wednesday as a recovery day, and I’ll get to work on other things starting on Thursday.  This does mean I have fewer days available for things that require me to be at home (organizing, working on dolls, etc.).  I know this and yet the challenge will be remembering that and not being hard on myself when I inevitably don’t get as much of those things done this week!

Monday, May 12, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 19: Taking Shape

Last week started out on the strugglebus, as I mentioned when I didn't even publish my weekly post until Wednesday.  The weekend was extremely productive, though, as we got a lot done on the patio.  We're creating a space that I'm hoping to be able to use for work and relaxation, and I'm pretty pleased.

Next up will be inside projects.  There's a lot more to do there!

Writing

I'm trying to fight my way back to a daily writing habit, but it's not coming easily — which is frustrating, because I maintained a regular writing habit for the majority of last year.  But this is a different year, obviously, with very different struggles.

So last week, I wrote my weekly blog post and posted to my author IG — the bare minimum of my goals for the year — but I did not work on my novel at all until this weekend.  I wrote about 200 words on Saturday and worked on a little research last night.  That makes two days in a row, and I'm hoping to extend that streak out into this week as well.

Decluttering and Organization

This is where my week shone — not because I organized anything inside (unfortunately) but because I got so much work done on the patio.  All of our orders arrived, so we spent the weekend putting together furniture and storage bins and shelving.  I think I mentioned that I feel I need to get this done first, even though there are more important projects inside, because otherwise I'll lose my window.  Granted, the "window" is more about planting than putting together patio furniture, but I've been thinking of it as a whole unit.  I hope to get said planting done in the next couple of weekends, and to be able to start using the space this week.

Dolls

No progress here last week.  I do have at least one project that has to happen this week by necessity, and I'd like to get back into working on dolls on a weekly, if not daily, basis.  The museum and I have scheduled a doll sale for June 21, where another vendor and I will have a couple of tables of space to sell at alongside the museum's gift shop, so I need to start getting ready for that.

Taxes

I still need to call PayPal about my issues getting my transaction history, but that ended up on hold all last week.  I've set aside some time tomorrow to do it.  I'm also hoping to get back to sorting through emails this week.

Lessons Learned

Last week was an odd week that started out less-than-productive, but ramped up in the last few days.  I know why, too: The arrival of our orders got me excited about working on the patio, and I rode that excitement through the rest of the weekend.  It's probably going to carry over into the next couple days, too, as I still have a patio umbrella to put together, patio lights to hang, and a flower bed to prep for new plants.

There's also the possibility that the productivity of the week before impacted the first few days of last week.  I do tend to get what I've always called "productivity hangovers," which is where a period of extreme productivity or busyness tends to throw me into a period of paralysis, where I have a difficult time mustering the momentum and motivation to get anything done.

I'm a little worried that the busy, productive weekend I just had will have the same effect, but it may be delayed until later next week.  Right now I have a few more things to do on the patio today, plus I have a lot of busyness scheduled this week and early next week.  Perhaps I'll schedule a "recovery" day next week, and see if that helps me to get back to work post-recovery.

Wednesday, May 07, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 18: Recovery, Interrupted

I started this post on Monday and now somehow it's Wednesday, if that gives you any idea of how this week is going.  I'm not even sure where the time has all gone!

Last week was, in short, chaos.  Coming off of an entire weekend of babysitting, I had two days of dog sitting for a different family, a day to ride, and then — on what was supposed to be my day to rest and recover -- my kitchen sink backed up and started leaking, and I spent Thursday and Friday dealing with that.

Somehow, despite all of this, the week looks very productive on paper.

Writing

I accomplished the bare minimum (my goal of one post) on social media.  I didn't work on my novel, except for jotting down an idea I had for a different novel, so I need to work on that this week.  But I did write a lot, with my politics newsletter going out near-daily (I took a couple days off over the weekend).

Decluttering and Organization

I worked on organizing the inventory I've accumulated (ordering before the de minimus exemption on small orders from China went away) for future doll shows and events.  This weekend we also did a lot of work in the garden and on the patio, cleaning up everything and starting to get it ready for this year.  I want to be able to write and take pictures out there this year.

Dolls

Working on doll projects is probably the only goal I did not make progress on this week, unless you count working on inventory.  Which... I suppose if I'm going to make this into a business, that probably does count.  After all, businesses often have a dedicated person to do purchasing for their stores.  So let's consider this one achieved for last week, too.

Taxes

I still need to catch up since filing the extension and I don't want to leave it all until the last minute, but I did work on it a little this week.  I need to get back to the email organization, but currently I'm working on getting all of my transaction records from PayPal.

Lessons Learned

It's funny how being under pressure sometimes makes me more productive.  It would seem like this might be my answer to everything, but unfortunately, it's not sustainable since I often develop what I affectionately call a "productivity hangover" afterward.

This week is already shaping up to be less productive than last week, but that's okay.  I've decided I'll just take it as it comes.  It's nice to be able to slow down a little this week, in any case.

We'll see what being able to slow down a little did to my goals when next week rolls around.

Monday, April 28, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 17: Birthdays and Babysitting

As expected, last week was somewhat abbreviated by weekend babysitting.  All in all it wasn’t too bad, though.

This week I’ll be working today and tomorrow at a different family’s house, which will make this week an abbreviated week as well.  I also anticipate needing at least a day or two of down time after all this is done, so I’ve scheduled the rest of the week to be relatively light.

As for last week:

Writing

I started out strong and worked on my novel the first couple days of the week, but dropped the thread after that (unsurprisingly).  I did work on my politics newsletter every day except for yesterday, when I was too tired from babysitting all weekend and needed to be up early this morning for job #2.

I only posted to my author IG once last week, so I met my goal but would like to do better this week.

Decluttering and Organization

I need to start working in earnest on organizing the doll show stuff and my sales closet for future access, but I didn’t get any of that done last week before I had to go babysit.  I did, however, get a bunch of work done cleaning up the garden and patio and getting it ready for this year, and I’m counting that as an extension of the house.  The last few years I’ve neglected my garden and patio, so there are a lot of weeds to get rid of, plus a lot of clutter on my patio to clean up.  One of my goals for the year is to get that space in order so that I can use it.  I’d like to be able to sit out there sometimes in the summer, and would especially like to be able to take doll pictures with the garden as a backdrop.

Dolls

I didn’t have a chance to work on the dolls at all, even though I have a slew of projects that I’d been working on before the doll show and would like to finish.  I hope to get to those next week (being realistic about my need for recovery time later this week).  I did organize the projects a little (read: got them out of the way in the kitchen) so I guess that sorta counts.  I also started communicating with the museum again and working on some upcoming programming and other planning, which probably also should sorta count.

Taxes

About the best I did on this was to start putting together an Airtable for tracking income and expenses.  I’m very behind on tracking — all I’ve got right now is a massive collection of receipts — so I need to start working on getting those entered.

Lessons Learned

The lack of progress last week was more or less to be expected, as I knew my week would be abbreviated by babysitting and a few other interruptions (like my mom visiting, birthday dinners, and my birthday on Saturday).  However I think I managed pretty well, all things considered.  I don’t expect this week to be terribly productive either, given my almost guaranteed need for recovery time after today and tomorrow, plus my husband’s birthday is this upcoming Sunday.  So I’ll focus on celebrating that and giving myself some recovery time, and plan on buckling down next week.

Monday, April 21, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 16: Recovery Time

Last week wasn’t the most productive week, unfortunately.  I took longer to recover from the doll show than I had hoped, even though if I were being honest with myself, I did expect it… I had just hoped (and made plans for) otherwise.

I think I have a good plan moving forward, but I’ll only get to play with it a little this week.  I have a busy nine days or so ahead of me: riding twice this week, followed by about five days of babysitting and pet care over the weekend and next week.  I might not have accepted the overnight babysitting Friday and Saturday nights if I’d remembered I was working Monday and Tuesday for another family, too — but then again, I might have.  It’ll be a lot of good money.

Here’s a quick rundown of the past week:

Writing

I had skipped working on my novel the day of the show and the last couple of days leading up to it, and I never got back to it this week.  As a result I have a 10-days streak of NOT writing, which I broke by working on my novel already today.

I did get the one social media post up last week, but that was it.  One goal met, though.

I did work on my politics newsletter every day last week.

Decluttering and Organization

After the show I left much of the stuff I’d brought home out so that I could go through it, reorganize, and work on my inventory.  I did work on that last week, and I’ve gotten maybe half of the show stuff put away.  I still have some reorganizing to do — I want to make sure certain things are more accessible for sales throughout the year (and not just for shows) — but it’s getting there.

Dolls

I worked on one doll project last week, a client doll I needed to finish up.  This week I need to finish the projects that didn’t get done in time for the show.  Once those are done, I’ll start on the rest of the project dolls.  One of the post-show organization goals is to get project dolls better organized to work on them going forward, so that should help as well.

Taxes

There was no time to get our return ready before the deadline, so I filed an extension.  I plan to get back to work on it at least a little every day this week.

Lessons Learned

One of the things I’ve been thinking about lately is how to play to my strengths a little better.  I don’t know if I’ve mentioned that I’ve come to suspect I have ADHD.  The suspicion has been brewing for years, and the more I learn and read and watch, the more sense it makes.  I’ve been seeing a lot of various apps, plans, and services geared toward those with ADHD, most of them claiming to help you “overcome” it.  But one of the things I’ve found most compelling is the suggestion that it can actually be a superpower if you learn to use it to your advantage.

I’ve been thinking a lot about how to do this, and considering making some changes to my schedule in order to make the most of what I know about my strengths and weaknesses.  Discussing it here would make for a very long post, though, so I’ll write a separate post about this in the next day or two.  For now, suffice it to say that I have some things I want to try this week, but I’m not expecting to get a ton done because of how busy I’ll be (riding and babysitting, mainly).

Monday, April 14, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 15: Crunch Time

Last week was a whirlwind of work.  What had once felt like so much time to get ready for the show quickly became not enough.  And then the show was almost here, it was happening, and then it was over.

It's all a blur, but it was a lucrative blur, I guess.

I didn't get nearly as much done for the show as I had wanted, but even so, I did a lot of business and pulled in a good amount of money.  I can't remember how much I made at the show last year, but this year's was similar.  Next year I could probably bring in more if I'm better prepared.

Here's a quick rundown:

Writing

I was doing really well with writing every day, even if it wasn't very much, but of course that fell apart in the last few days: Friday and Saturday nights, when I was working hard to complete my projects, and last night, when I was exhausted from essentially a 12-hour work day on 2 hours of sleep.  Still, I set a streak record for the year so far of 11 days, which I'm pleased about.  A break for a few days around the show seems justifiable.

I also succeeded in getting my social media post up last week, although it was only the one.  And of course, I wrote my politics newsletter every single day except for Saturday and Sunday — Saturday because I was too busy prepping for the show, and Sunday because I was too exhausted.  I was asleep before 11pm last night, which almost never happens!

Decluttering and Organization

I decluttered in the kitchen and garage a little as part of preparing for the show.  That counts, right?

Dolls

Obviously, I worked on my dolls plenty, probably making up for the entire year in just a few days.  I am hoping to keep it up, too, just at a less hectic pace.

Taxes

With all of the preparations for the doll show, I didn't work on taxes at all last week, so I need to get back on it!  I am likely going to file an extension as there's no way I can finish everything I need to by tomorrow.  The key will be continuing to work on this daily after filing the extension, rather than waiting until the last minute before the extended deadline.

Lessons Learned

While I managed to pull off a pretty decent show, it would have been much better if I'd started preparing much earlier in the year, as I'd originally planned.  Even a month in advance would have made the whole thing much better, instead of trying to cram it all in during the week before the show.  I finish out the show every single year vowing to prepare more in advance the next year, and I never do.  However I think I would have this year if it hadn't been for the upsetting and chronically distracting political climate.

Now that the show is over, I am taking it easy for a couple of days, since I'm showing signs of burnout and overwhelm today — I'm easily distracted and taking a long time to do simple tasks.  But this week and next, I intend to establish a weekly rhythm where I'm balancing my time a little better between the things that matter.

Monday, April 07, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 14: Deadline Looming

Last week was a relatively productive week, which doesn't surprise me because I know how my brain works.  I have a new project and I have a deadline looming, both of which are motivating factors for me.

Writing

I actually managed to work on my novel every single day last week.

Of course, many days I only wrote 100 or 200 words (one day I wrote 13!), but what I am pleased about is that every single day, I made myself at least open up my project and add to it.  Even if it was only 13 words.  I kept it fresh in my mind and kept moving forward every day, and that's a massive win for me.

I only posted to my blog and my author Instagram twice.

Decluttering and Organization

I cleaned my counter space in the kitchen where I tend to let stuff pile up again (it's already accumulating more — must do something about that) and started organizing show stuff and assessing what I already have and still need for Sunday.  I'm still behind on what I wanted to get done, but it's a major step forward.

Dolls

I started organizing dolls to work on for the show, but haven't worked on any yet.  YET.  Today I'm going to go through project dolls, see what I can get done before the show and what each needs, and get to work.  I expect the rest of the week to be a rehab frenzy.

Taxes

Somehow I managed not to get anything done on this (except for I think like a dozen emails I sorted one night but didn't record since I didn't work on it very long).  I definitely need to ramp up my efforts this week.

Lessons Learned

It was a busy week, but I've got an even busier one ahead!  I think we're solidly in the "hang on for dear life and it'll be over soon" stage.  I know I was talking about taking a break to recover after the show, but I'll have a lot of deferred things that aren't going to get done this week, so I don't know if I'll be able to.

Monday, March 31, 2025

The End of NaNoWriMo

I know I already posted earlier today, but this is important.

Today emails went out to the NaNoWriMo community: The organization is shutting down due to lack of funding.  I will repost the full email below, omitting the embedded video since I don't want to give her any more views.

The email and the video lean into the idea that NaNoWriMo failed to come back from its crises the last couple years because the community sabotaged Kilby.  I argue otherwise.

Starting in early 2024, she emailed all of the Municipal Liaisons (volunteer regional coordinators, basically in-person event organizers and local points-of-contact for the organization) informing us of massive changes to the volunteer ML program.  We would have to go through extensive identification and background checks, and sign an oppressive contract that had clearly NOT been written by a lawyer.  After much debate, she put us on the back burner, and told us she would be in touch soon with more details.  (Spoiler alert: We never heard back.)

This is important because when NaNoWriMo functioned the way it should, the MLs actually drove both local participation and donations.  We encouraged writers, kept participants engaged, and promoted Double Up Donation Weekend and similar events.  So cutting us loose meant cutting loose organized local participation and a ton of donations.

Next, she made a statement about AI that many writers, especially those with disabilities and in lower socioeconomic classes, found offensive.  The entire community was up in arms, published authors bailed from the advisory board, and many longtime participants swore off NaNoWriMo, many even deleting their accounts entirely.

If you're keeping track, this means that by the end of summer, she'd not only cut loose all the volunteers who did much of the legwork to get donations, but also ostracized the community at large that provided the donations.

As November approached, we former MLs noticed a complete lack of communication from NaNoWriMo.  All of the usual prep emails, designed to drive anticipation and get people to commit to doing the challenge, were missing.  It also became obvious that there was little or no staff at HQ.  Whether that was from people leaving when management changed, or new management forcing people to leave, we don't know, but the end result was that HQ didn't have enough staff to do all the things that usually resulted in a flow of donations.

In other words, staff ran the fundraisers.  No staff, no fundraisers.

And without the staff, the big donation weekend that typically pulled in a huge amount of fundraising — the donation event that we MLs had all promoted at our events and in our emails in previous years — was never even scheduled.

Toward the end of the month, Kilby seemed to suddenly realize the organization wasn't getting funding, and several panic-button funding emails went out, but it was too little, too late.  By that late in the month, many writers have lost momentum and dropped out — especially without local events and MLs helping them to stay focused and keep going.

And then early this year, the news broke that NaNoWriMo had actually failed to renew their registration to accept charitable contributions.  As a result, they were listed as delinquent by the state of California and technically couldn't accept donations.

When you eliminate the volunteers and staff that get the donations, drive away the community that provides the donations, fail to solicit the donations, and don't even maintain your ability to legally accept the donations... uh, yeah, what did she think was going to happen to the organization's funding?!

So take Kilby's video blaming the community for killing NaNoWriMo with a grain of salt.  I think that's indicative more of Kilby's know-it-all attitude and her refusal to acknowledge her mistakes, both of which were frequently on display in our (MLs') dealings with her.

With all that in mind, feel free to read the original email, below.  If I can get a transcript of the video, I'll publish that too, as I don't want to give her video — which was posted to her personal account — millions of views and enable her to use that to monetize her YouTube channel over the dead carcass of the organization she destroyed.

To Our NaNoWriMo Community: 

We come to you today with sad news. After six years of struggling to sustain itself financially, NaNoWriMo (the nonprofit) will begin the process of shutting down. 

Explaining how we got here is both simple and complex. The funding woes that have threatened so many nonprofits in recent years are an unextraordinary trend. Many beloved organizations announced their closure last year. Many more are fighting for their lives.  Media coverage of financial crisis within the sector—especially among arts nonprofits—has been widespread.

Yet, there are ways in which NaNoWriMo is extraordinary—and reasons why we had hoped we could buck that trend. The sheer size of our community, its global reach and its longevity, held at impressive levels, even during a tumultuous year. There is no shortage of writers who want to participate in NaNoWriMo. Yet, building a community and being able to sustain it are two different matters. 2024 was a revelatory year.

In order to fully understand how we reached this decision, and why we view it as the only alternative, we encourage you to watch this video about the State of NaNoWriMo. The video also contains some important acknowledgments and information about the logistics of our next steps. Most importantly, the video shares real data and information that the organization has not discussed previously. The plot is thicker than you might think. 

We recognize that the closure of NaNoWriMo represents a huge loss to the writing community, and that grief over this outcome will be exacerbated by the challenges of the past sixteen months. This is not the ending that anybody wanted or planned. And—believe us—if we could hit the delete button and rewrite this last chapter, we would. But we do have hope for the epilogue. 

What’s next for NaNoWriMo, the indebted nonprofit, is much different from what's next for actual Wrimos. We hold no belief that people will stop writing 50,000 words in November (and April, and July) or stop seeking support for the journey they’re on. Many alternatives to NaNoWriMo popped up this year, and people did find each other. In so many ways, it’s easier than it was when NaNoWriMo began in 1999 to find your writing tribe online. 

Our greatest hope at this moment is that you do two things: support arts nonprofits you love (they really, truly need you) and keep writing words. Your stories matter. 

Thank you for all you have done for the organization, and especially for each other, over all these years.

Sincerely,
The NaNoWriMo Team

 A Few Additional Notes

  • We anticipate that some people might want to log on and capture information that is meaningful to them, like their lifetime word count or stats from previous seasons or challenges. We also anticipate that some folks on the Young Writers Program website may not have backed up work that they wrote directly into our system, and may wish to do so at this time. If there is something you feel you need to retrieve, you are welcome to try. However, our site tends to crash a lot when overrun with too much traffic (chronic technology underinvestment is mentioned in the video). We apologize for any inconvenience if the site gets crashy.
  • If you are a recurring donor, thank you for your ongoing support of the organization (truly). We have cancelled all recurring donations on our end in order to ensure that you will not be charged as we transition into our next phase. 
  • If you want anything from the NaNoWriMo store, please don't delay. We will shut that down soon as well. 
  • Finally, we have observed that, at times of change, many members of our community are in want of spaces to process these new developments, and that, historically, we have hosted many all-community online spaces. Unfortunately, we have very limited resources to reply individually to comments or to moderate our social spaces at this time. We will do our best but make no guarantees. 


2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 13: Busy Week

Last week started out pretty productive, but ended in several busy days, so I didn't end up getting as much done on my goals throughout the week as I'd wanted.  But I did do things, as you'll see shortly.

Writing

Last week I worked on my novel exactly one day, Tuesday.  I did also get a post up on my author Instagram.

It's not an effort toward my goals, but I did do a lot of writing last week.  On Thursday, I started my politics newsletter on Substack, What to Know Today.  Thursday's and Friday's posts were lengthy and took a lot of writing and research, and I've posted every day since.  I do need to keep working on my novel, of course, but it's not like I wasn't doing anything last week.

Decluttering and Organization

This category is more or less on hold until after the doll show, but I did get some work done in the garden over the weekend, which I'm counting because decluttering my patio and cleaning up my garden is definitely one of my projects for this year.  Right now it's a mess, but I'd like my patio and garden to eventually be a place where I can get doll pictures.

Dolls

I got so busy that I didn't work on any dolls last week either.  This week I really need to buckle down as the doll show, which seemed so far away for the longest time, is now rapidly approaching.

Taxes

My goal is to work on this a little every day until it's all done.  I did work a little each day for several days on organizing income and expense emails, but at the end of the week I got really busy and didn't get any more done on it.  I need to get back to work on that this week, along with working on getting dolls ready for the show.

Lessons Learned

Last week got off to a really good start; it was when I babysat a lot Thursday and Friday that I lost the thread.  The weekend ended up really busy too, with a whole lot of errands to run on Saturday that we'd been putting off all week, and a long time spent at the barn on Sunday.

I'm hoping this week will be more productive, but I'm also considering focusing only on those two things this week: prepping for the doll show, and taxes.  It may mean not writing much over the next couple weeks, and being okay with that.  Except for the new newsletter, of course — that I intend to keep up.

Monday, March 24, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 12: Sick Days

Last week was rough.  I started out relatively productive, but toward midweek I started to go downhill as I caught my husband's cold, which I mentioned in last week's post.  I bounced back a bit over the weekend as I started to feel better, but still didn't recover enough to do all the things I had wanted to do.

I also am adding a new category to my weekly rundown: taxes.  Since we're into tax season and Tax Day is only two days after the doll show, I'll need to prep for both the doll show and taxes on pretty much a daily basis from now until then.  I used to be so organized with my income and expenses throughout the year, maintaining a spreadsheet and filing receipts all year, and now I just have a crate of receipts and a bunch of unorganized email receipts.

But without further ado, here's the rundown:

Writing

Last Monday was the last time I worked on my novel.  Obviously being sick I get a pass for that, but I need to get back into the habit this week.  On Monday I had a 7-day streak of working on it every day.  Right now I have a 7-day streak of not working on it every day.  I don't want the current streak to continue.

I did get a social media post up last Monday, but that was the only one.

Decluttering and Organization

This didn't happen — too sick.  I will probably have to shelve some of these projects until after the doll show so that I can focus on getting ready for that (and on doing taxes).

Dolls

This also didn't happen, but with the doll show coming up, I anticipate I'll be making up for all year's worth of neglect within the next three weeks.

Taxes (New Category)

Over the weekend, I started going through emails for income and expense records.  Right now I'm not sorting through what everything is, just chucking it all into a designated folder for the year, and I'll start going through it when I start building out my income and expense spreadsheets.  I'm going to be using a new system this year, so it'll take a little work to get it all set up, but I think it'll work better for me when it's all finished.

Lessons Learned

I am grateful to the article I spotted that reminded me Tax Day was fast approaching.  I've gotten so bad at procrastinating and I want to create better habits — get back to tracking income and expenses throughout the year, if possible, so that there's less work at the end of the year.  Rebuilding my entire year in April is labor intensive and incredibly stressful.

I suspect I won't be as good about writing almost every day over the next three weeks.  I'm still going to try, but I'm also going to give myself grace if I don't always meet that goal.  Now through April 12th, however, my goal will be to work on doll rehab or show prep every single day, and to work on tax prep at least a little every day from now until Tax Day (or until it's done).

I am definitely going to need some recovery time once the show and taxes are all done!

Monday, March 17, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 11: Sike!

I might be dating myself with that post title, but I totally feel like my life tricked me right now.  I was feeling motivated early last week and totally thought I'd have a productive week, but a bunch of last-minute babysitting, a day trip on Friday (okay, I knew about that one, but still) and an unexpected illness conspired to make my week less productive than I had hoped.

Writing

In this area I actually was pretty productive.  I worked on my novel six out of seven days last week, missing only Monday.  Some of it was research, watching YouTube videos of mares foaling for the novel I'm working on, but I still counted it even though it wasn't words on the page.  I ended up getting over a thousand words written late last night.  And if I can keep up working on it, I can keep my current streak alive.

Decluttering and Organization

I didn't have a chance to do anything in this department last week, since we took it easy over the weekend and napped a lot.  My husband caught a cold from work, and I'm trying my best to stay healthy and not catch it, too.

Dolls

I didn't get anything done in this department either, for the same reason.

Lessons Learned

I'm still not in the clear yet as I could still catch my husband's cold, but I'm hoping to stay healthy.  Either way it'll mean not a lot gets done for a few days, because I'm going to try to take things easy in the hopes of keeping up my immune system.  I do hope to get a few things done (and maintain my writing streak!) but between that and several other things that have already come up, I don't expect any groundbreaking productivity this week.

Tuesday, March 11, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 10: Progress

Progress has been slow, but I can still see signs of it.  I had a more productive week last week, and have been feeling more motivated overall.  This is an improvement over the previous week, when I was only just starting to feel like I was coming back from my slump.

Writing

I worked on my novel four days in a row last week, Monday through Thursday.  I had hoped to keep up the streak a little longer, but we had a busy weekend and I wasn't able to get any writing time in.  A future goal will be to make sure I get writing time on weekends, but it didn't happen this time.

I posted to my author Instagram four times as well.  A lot of it has been political stuff, but hey, it's posting, right?

Decluttering and Organization

It's minor, but I'm going to count it as a win: Last week I did all the laundry and put it away the same day (some of you know how hard this can be), and I started cleaning up the garden for spring.  I'd like to be able to enjoy my patio this year, but it's been very neglected the last several years so it's going to take some work to get it back to where it looks nice and feels like somewhere I can sit and hang out again.

This week I'm hoping to get more done in the garden, and hopefully get caught up on some projects inside as well.

Dolls

No progress here last week, but I anticipate that changing this week.  I have a lot to do still to get ready for the doll show, which is in just one month now!

Lessons Learned

Coming back from burnout or overwhelm is possible, but it's an excruciating, uphill battle and progress takes time.  Still, I feel like I did much better last week, and hopefully will see even more improvement in the next couple of weeks, as the doll show deadline looms.

On that note, though, I fully expect the mad rush to get ready for the show to kick me back into a burnout state.  I might purposely schedule a week or two of recovery time with few responsibilities and see if that helps.  In the past, when I've tried to skip recovery time after a big event like this show, what normally happens is that it just prolongs the burnout over weeks or even months.

I'll deal with that when it comes.  What matters right now is holding it together for the next month so that I can be ready for that show!

Friday, March 07, 2025

Amazon Boycott March 7-14


If you survived the economic blackout on February 28th, here's a new, slightly longer, but more targeted one to sink your teeth into: For the next eight days, March 7-14, we're boycotting Amazon and all of their various companies.

That means not only no Amazon, Kindle, Prime Video, Amazon Music, or Alexa, but also no Twitch, Whole Foods, Ring, Zappos, or IMDb either, as Amazon also owns all of those companies.  Here's a graphic list of everything Amazon owns.  (Scroll down — it's the long graphic, not the thumnail.)

I meant to post a warning in advance again so people had time to get what they needed before it started, but a week isn't too long and it's only Amazon & Co. this time.  If you need something try to either wait until after the 14th or find it somewhere else.

I think this boycott will be more difficult for people, because even though there is only one company (or group of companies) we're boycotting, it's also a longer period.  It was easy enough to put off purchasing for 24 hours, but waiting eight days is a little more difficult.

At least, since it's only Amazon and their companies, it should be easy enough to find most things somewhere else if you really can't wait!

With this in mind, I'm going to share my philosophy about boycotting.  I am 99% behind boycotts, but that 1% says that if it's going to dramatically impact your quality of life, it's okay to make a small exception, as long as you're otherwise committed to the boycott.

I also think there's a bigger picture to look at as well.  For example, I'm planning to cancel my Kindle Unlimited as soon as I finish the books I already have borrowed.  If I don't read them during this week, I'll have to renew on the 23rd.  It seems counterintuitive to boycott Amazon for a week and then send them more money, so I'm going to work on reading just those books during the next week.  It's a minor violation of the boycott, but the end result — canceling my Kindle Unlimited subscription — makes it worth it.

The important thing is to send a message to Amazon that we're not here for their new policies and their partnership with the current administration.  Are you with me?

Wednesday, March 05, 2025

TikTok and the Importance of Diversification

I got distracted by all the current events, but I meant to post about TikTok back when it went down and back up again.  It all felt to like a publicity stunt designed to upset as many users as possible, but what it also reminded me of is something I've heard a lot of marketing experts and self-published authors talk about: the importance of never being dependent on somebody else's platform for your audience.

If you weren't aware of the TikTok controversy, in 2024 the United States Congress banned TikTok unless the company divested from its Chinese interests before the deadline, which was in January.  The concern is that China could use the app to surveil Americans, since Chinese companies by law must comply with any data requests from their government.

When the app went down on a Saturday night in January, just a couple of days before the inauguration, I saw posts from many of my friends (who apparently didn't think it would actually happen).  Of course a social media post from our then-president elect resulted in the restoration of TikTok the very next day.

The app was down for less than 24 hours, but the panic was widespread.  I saw lots of complaints on other social media sites about what the loss of the platform was going to do to small business owners, and I couldn't help wondering: If they were so worried about their businesses, why didn't they take advantage of the advance warning (the ban was made law last April, nine months before the deadline) and start preparing for the change months ago?

Social media provides a great tool for marketing your book or business, but it is just that — a tool — and should never be your entire business model.  Good use of social media accounts should encourage followers, but also drive those followers to a platform you control.  You need a website and ideally a newsletter with an email list, so that if your favorite social media sites were to ever go down, change their rules, or lock you out for some reason, you wouldn't lose everything you've worked so hard for.  Ideally you should have social media accounts on multiple platforms — it's unlikely they'll all go down at once — as well as your own branded website.

(Note that Meta owns Facebook, Instagram, and Threads, so all of those could feasibly go down or lock you out at once.  So be sure that you diversify between different companies as well as different platforms.)

TikTok users: Right now you have a second chance.  Yes, TikTok has been spared for now, but it's just that — for now.  There's a new deadline coming up on April 5th.  So far I haven't heard of any business deals that would satisfy the requirements to avoid the ban, and there's no telling whether they'll get another reprieve.  So set up other social media accounts, get set up as an influencer on other platforms, or set up a blog and a mailing list — whatever suits your business model.  While you still have TikTok available to you, start building your presence on other platforms.  Most importantly, start looking for ways to make your audience actually yours instead of just TikTok's, such as through the use of a website and mailing list.

Seriously.  Start working on it now, if you haven't already.  You only have a month left before a potential repeat of the same scenario could play out.  Don't get caught out a second time!

Monday, March 03, 2025

Slava Ukraini!


I, like many Americans, was horrified on Friday by how President Zelenskyy of Ukraine was treated when he came to negotiate a condition to continued aid that never should have been a part of our offer in the first place.  For the first time in my life, I was deeply, deeply ashamed for my country.  And so I would like to say:

To President Zelenskyy and the people of Ukraine: 

I know I speak for many Americans when I say that our president does not speak for us.  It will forever be a mark of shame for the US how you were treated in the Oval Office.  Your fight is noble and righteous and we should be supporting you, not cornering you in a room full of onlookers like a group of scared followers watching a bully pick on a kid alone, and then sending you away with accusations that you need to be more grateful (even though you have thanked us repeatedly).

I have, however, been glad to see so many countries rising up and voicing their support in your time of need.  I hope that in the end, we will have helped to give you the support you require in one way or another — if not by supporting you ourselves, then by causing everyone else to recommit to helping you.

As for the United States, perhaps it is time for us to learn that we are not the entire world, that we can refuse to do the right thing and still the right thing will be done, because we are only one country among dozens.  Certainly we are no longer a world leader, and it feels right now for other countries to step up and carry the torch that we once helped to light.

And perhaps, now, the torch is yours: Ukraine has been an unrelenting light in the face of darkness, a symbol of freedom and resistance in the face of oppression.

May the rest of the world prove itself as fierce in its support for you, as you have proven yourself to be in your fight for independence.

Slava Ukraini!

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 9: Rising Hope

Last week was a little better than the week before, which gives me hope.  I'm feeling a little more motivated today and I think it's going to help with this week.

Last week's goals progress were as follows:

Writing

Last week was pretty good on the writing front.  I wrote three days in a row, and while I missed Friday and the weekend, I'm okay with that because of how much was going on those days.  I've also been very active on my blog and on my author Instagram, partially because I decided to start channeling my politics focus where it was relevant, but I'm pleased with the results.

Decluttering and Organization

One of the things that kept me from writing over the weekend also helped motivate me to work on a small decluttering and organization project: My mom spent the night Saturday night to celebrate her birthday, which was Friday.  That meant that I had to clean up the downstairs bathroom for her use.  I haven't been using that bathroom much since Izzy died, since we had set it up for her care, so this was actually a big accomplishment for me.

I also got some minor things done last night, just by keeping moving once I was already in motion.  It sounds silly, but I had something that I absolutely had to do, and once I was in that mode, I just pushed myself to get several other things done, and it worked!

Dolls

No progress here, unfortunately, but I have hope for this week!

Lessons Learned

I'm not sure why I feel different about last week or this coming week, but I think it has a little to do with goals, inspiration, and good ol' dopamine kicks from getting stuff done.  It felt good to accomplish some things over the weekend, and that was part of it.  But also, I found an external factor (my mom's visit) to motivate me and made use of that.

This week I have a new project I want to start working on, and I'm hoping that will help me maintain motivation throughout what promises to be a busy week.

Thursday, February 27, 2025

Economic Blackout TOMORROW February 28

 


In case you haven't heard, there is an economic blackout tomorrow, February 28th.  The blackout is ideally for everything, so no purchases, but especially no chain purchases: no Amazon, no Target, no Walmart, no McDonalds, no credit card payments.

If you have to buy something, try to make it local and cash only.  Our grievances are with the corporate behemoths who are kowtowing to the corrupt administration and setting examples for the rest of our capitalistic society.

So if you have something to buy, try to buy it tonight!  Tomorrow, try to get through the entire day without making a purchase, if possible, but if you can't do it, buy local and pay with cash.

Let's vote with our wallets and show them we won't support immoral businesses or immoral government policies!

Tuesday, February 25, 2025

Amazon Alternatives

***Remember, if you're switching to a different ebook provider, today is your last day to download your Kindle library to your computer!***

My last few weeks have been filled with things like finding new sources for all of the things I used to buy at Amazon and Target, and finding alternatives for things like productivity tools that Google used to provide for me.  Seeing as how Amazon is making a significant change that hampers users' ability to switch away from Kindle without repercussions, I wanted to get this post out there ASAP.

If you're as dependent on Amazon as I was, they're a tough one to replace.  Half my life came from Amazon: what I read, what I watch, what I listen to, where I get business supplies, and how I get dozens of products I use delivered to my door.  With Amazon, I could think of something I needed at the last minute, and it would be here within a day or two most of the time.  It was convenient and also somewhat of a crutch.

That's a difficult dependence to break, but I'm pleased to say we have only ordered from Amazon a couple times in the last month, and those were all planned orders while we search for alternative sources for a few more things.

My criteria, as I've been looking for replacements for Amazon, has been to prioritize first companies that are supporting DEI, and secondly, companies that haven't rolled back their DEI but also haven't made any statements either way about where they stand.

Here is a list of ideas of where to get the things you used to buy from Amazon.  Starred companies have made public statements standing up for DEI and supporting them should be our highest priority.

Okay, seriously, at this point I should just say outright that if you are serious about boycotting companies that no longer support DEI, you NEED a Costco membership.  Not only are they awesome for standing up to the pressure to roll back their DEI, but they are a fantastic source for a lot of things that you probably used to get from Amazon, Target, or Walmart.  And don't think you have to be a big family to shop there, either.  My single mom shops there just for herself, and so do my husband and I for our two-person home.

But back to my list:

Special shoutout to Ben & Jerry's.  Most of us probably aren't buying ice cream from Amazon, but support this amazing company anyway for their fiery diatribe on how important DEI is.

It's not a comprehensive list, but it should be enough to start breaking your Amazon dependence in favor of companies that are holding the line on DEI!

Monday, February 24, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 8: Difficult Times

I feel like a lot has gone on since my post last week.  It wasn't necessarily stuff that I recorded in Toggl, but I feel like I've been very busy.  Part of it might be that I babysat both days over the weekend.

I'm hoping for a little more progress next week, but for now, a quick rundown on my goals:

Writing

I worked on my novel two days last week instead of the three that I was hoping for.  I blogged and posted to my author Instagram twice, plus I worked a lot on another blog and social media post that I'll get up this week.

Decluttering and Organization

No progress.

Dolls

No progress.

Lessons Learned

Despite the lack of progress toward specific goals last week, it felt like a very full week.  I'm working toward a new writing goal that might be more in keeping with my current focus right now, which is politics.  I will still maintain my other goals, as I have schedules I want to or need to keep, but implementing my new goal might make me feel a little more like I'm accomplishing something.  More on that soon.

Sunday, February 23, 2025

Download Your Kindle eBooks Before February 26th


A few days ago, news broke that Amazon was going to remove a feature that allows us to download Kindle ebooks to the computer.  The feature was intended for sideloading ebooks for older Kindles that didn't have the ability to download wirelessly, but of course allows users to back up their ebooks to prevent Amazon from sneakily removing books from your library, which they have done before.

Being able to download your Kindle library to your computer is also useful if you are, say, switching to Kobo to protest Amazon's rollback of their DEI policies and their founder being all buddy-buddy with the billionaire administration.

Supposedly you'll still be able to pull ebooks off your Kindle directly, but newer Kindles use a different format that makes it more difficult to strip the DRM so that you can read the books from any e-reader.  Which may, in fact, be why they are discontinuing this feature.  Is it possible the boycott is hurting them enough that they are trying to stop people from taking their ebook libraries and jumping ship?

Regardless of the reason, if you want to liberate your Kindle library for reading on any device, you'll need to do it before Wednesday.  Visit this article for detailed instructions on how to download your Kindle books to your computer.

Thursday, February 20, 2025

BEWARE! Todoist Pro Scam UPDATED

I mentioned in my weekly goals post on Monday that I had found a new system for managing my tasks and calendar.  I also canceled my Todoist Pro subscription on Monday after making sure all my tasks were switched over, so imagine my surprise when I was charged for another month tonight.

Making it difficult or impossible to cancel a subscription is a lowdown, dirty scam.  No honest company operates this way.

Avoid Todoist at all costs.  There are much better task management apps out there anyway.

I'm working on a more detailed review of my new system, which I will post soon.  But in the meantime, consider yourself warned about Todoist.

UPDATE: Todoist responded quickly, I'll give them credit for that.  I've already been refunded for the charge, and they "canceled" my subscription (again?).  But I shouldn't have had to go through this.  And what if I hadn't noticed?  If I didn't have a tight budget, or if I paid via credit card, I might not have.  How many months would they have gotten more money from me before I realized?

Years ago, there was a scammy freelance writing job board that charged a subscription fee.  They had a low cost trial subscription for you to decide whether you wanted to commit to the full-cost subscription.  It wasn't very good and most people tried to cancel once they found that out... except typically they weren't able to.  The company made it very hard to contact them, and even when you did, it was very difficult to get them to follow through with canceling your subscription.  Some people would even have to change their bank account information in order to get the charges to stop.  The scammers made tons of money just off of people who were trying to cancel their subscriptions.

About a decade ago, I had a similar experience trying to cancel MoviePass.  It started out as a valid service that I used for several years, but toward the end of their run, they were having issues with their contracts and stopped having any good movies.  When I canceled their service, they kept charging me.  I wasn't able to get them to stop by contacting them directly, so ultimately I had to call my bank to block future payments and refund what I'd been charged.  But again, how much money did they make just by making it difficult to cancel?

I kinda hate this world we're in now where absolutely everything charges a subscription, but I hate even more that it's making it easy for companies to make money off of us by being negligent and not canceling subscriptions when they're supposed to.

Keep an eye on your finances after canceling a subscription, friends.  Make sure this doesn't happen to you, and act quickly if it does.

Monday, February 17, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 7: Overcoming Difficulties

It's been a rough few weeks, but I finally feel like I'm starting to make progress.  I'm still feeling like I'm struggling with the political climate, but I'm clawing my way out of the hyper-fixation hole I had dug for myself.  I still need to figure out how to do balance attentiveness to the situation without letting it consume me, but I'm getting there.

Amusingly, I realized I was such a mess last week that I numbered the week wrong, calling it week 5 instead of week 6.  That has been corrected in the post now, although the URL is sadly stuck as a second week 5.

One thing I worked on a lot last week that won't count toward one of my goals, even though it contributes, is switching over my task and calendar system to a new app.  I wanted to move away from Google products after they ousted their DEI programs and jettisoned holidays such as Black History Month, Women's History Month, and Pride from their calendar.  I'll write more about that soon as I think others will find the new apps I've found very helpful as well.

Writing

I worked on my novel three days instead of one, wrote a couple of blog posts, and posted to my author IG a couple of times.  I still want to get to the point where I'm working on my writing nearly every day again, but this is still an improvement and I'm pleased.

I didn't count it as working on my novel, but I also worked on that writing, revising, and publication schedule I set up recently, refining it and getting it switched over to my new task tracking system.

Decluttering and Organization

I didn't get anything done in this category, unfortunately.

Dolls

Nothing accomplished here either.

Lessons Learned

I didn't improve across the board, but I'm pleased with the progress I did make.  I feel like even small progress should be celebrated here, and hopefully I will do better in this coming week.  I'm also looking forward to exploring some of these new, non-Google tools, which I will blog about soon!

Tuesday, February 11, 2025

Celebrating Small Successes

Yesterday I reported that I had started feeling a little better toward the end of last week, like my focus was returning.  I'm happy to report that yesterday actually was a fairly successful day.  Not only did I get done the blog post and author social media post I'd hoped for, but I also tuned in to a couple of webinars throughout the day (one career-related, on the book launch process, and the other politics-related, on bystander intervention).  And at the end of the day, I actually succeeded in writing for about an hour and a half, pumping out nearly 2,000 words — well over anything I've managed to write in about the last month.

The productivity yesterday did cost me a little, and I felt the effects of what I call a "productivity hangover" today — basically, feeling sluggish and unmotivated the day after a lot of productivity.  It happens almost every time for me.  Sometimes I can push past it and sometimes I can't.

This blog post is me trying to push past it today.  I have a few other things on my list for the day too, some of which are more important to me than others.  Yes, working on my novel again (can I get two days in a row and start a new streak?) is one of them.  Hopefully we'll also be able to make it to our weekly Tuesday evening write-in, as that will help with my plans to work on my novel again today.

Balancing my own life and goals against staying informed about political events is going to be tough to achieve in the coming weeks, months, and years, but I guess I'll be getting some good practice at it.

Monday, February 10, 2025

2025 Weekly Challenge, Week 6: Rock Bottom

Last week was dismal, even worse than the previous week.  By the time I finally worked on my novel yesterday, I had gone a whopping nine days in a row without writing.  But I'm not going to talk about that, or even do my usual breakdown.  Instead I'm just going to list what I did do:

  • I worked on my novel one day, yesterday
  • I wrote a couple of blog posts
  • I posted not just once, but twice to my author IG
  • I set up my new iPad, which I got for writing, as I am planning a staggered transition to Apple

Toward the end of the week I started feeling slightly more able to focus.  I'm not entirely ready to go back to normal, but perhaps I can at least start to focus on other things than watching for and consuming all the latest headlines.

Lessons Learned

I think the biggest takeaway last week is that I finally — I hope — hit rock bottom, and got the least possible amount done.  I think it's important that we don't overlook how utterly traumatic the last few weeks have been.  Watching this hostile takeover of our democracy and the erosion of our rights as citizens is having an impact.  I'm going to give myself some grace, acknowledge that there's no way I ever could have focused on anything else over the last few weeks, take a deep breath, and move on.

This week will be better.

Sunday, February 09, 2025

Support Apple for Supporting DEI

In addition to boycotting companies like Amazon that are rolling back DEI, I'm supporting the ones who maintain their DEI policies.  One such company is Apple.  Apple was one of the early companies to stand by their DEI policies, and they're still standing strong.

I was already considering buying an Apple machine so that I could use Vellum to format my ebooks, but Apple's DEI stance helped fast track my decision, and I bought an iPad over the weekend with the goal of using it as a mobile writing machine.  My Surface Go has been a good mobile computer for writing, but it can also be pretty slow.  I think the iPad (running Scrivener's mobile app) will be a good alternative.

Eventually the goal will be to buy a MacBook Air as well so that I can run Vellum on it.  For now, though, I'll be fine with my regular computer — also a Surface, just a larger and faster one.  It's not that old yet, plus the staggered transition will give me time to get together the money for the larger purchase of a new computer.

I've always been an iPhone user, so it makes sense to make the switch to other Apple products as well.  I may also eventually switch to Apple's smart speakers, too, since I'll be transitioning away from Amazon as well.

That's another area the iPad will come in handy.  As I boycott Amazon products more, I need another place to read magazines and periodicals, as I'll lose those when I give up Amazon Unlimited.  The iPad will actually answer a lot of needs for me.  I'm looking forward to this new transition; and who doesn't love new gadgets?!

Thursday, February 06, 2025

Boycott Amazon for Ditching DEI

This plan (and post) has been in the works for a few weeks, ever since I first heard that Amazon was rolling back its DEI programs, but I'm just finally putting together a post on the issue.

In case you hadn't heard, Amazon rolled back their DEI policies a couple weeks ago to kiss the current administration's ass.  They must be feeling the consequences of that decision since it's causing even more customers to pull back from using Amazon (they had enough of a fallout after The Washington Post refused to support Harris and again after Bezos started appearing all buddy-buddy with the current administration), as they are now claiming that they're still supporting DEI, just not officially.

In my opinion, that's total bullshit.  They're trying to play both sides and keep everyone happy.  But if you're not holding the line, what do you really stand for?  It's a coward's move, plain and simple.

My plan to withdraw my dependence on Amazon started a couple of weeks ago, after the initial announcements, and is now in full swing.  We are finding alterative sources for all of our major Amazon purchases.  Some are easy (switching to Chewy for pet food, for example, or buying tech from Costco or Microcenter instead of Amazon) and others will take some additional creativity.

One major issue for me is my reading habits.  I have two Kindles and I read a lot.  Much of it is through the libraries, which I don't think gives Amazon any money.  I do purchase ebooks sometimes, though, so I needed a way to convert my ebook buying habits to another source.

Enter Kobo.  I purchased a Kobo reader, the Libra Colour.  I will continue using my Kindle readers in ways that don't send any money Amazon's way, but for anything that costs money, Kobo is my new go-to.

As it turns out, there are advantages of having a Kobo reader:

  • OverDrive syncs with my e-reader directly, which means I no longer have to jump back and forth between two different devices to check out ebooks and send them to my device.
  • Kobo readers also sync directly with Pocket, which means I can save news articles to my e-readers by using the plug-in already on my browser.
  • Kobo readers also sync with both Dropbox and Google Drive, providing a couple of different ways to side load ebooks wirelessly.  Project Gutenberg even has little buttons to save ebooks directly to these cloud services, making it super easy to get free ebooks on my Kobo reader.
  • Kobo has its own reading subscription, Kobo Plus, and it appears the selection is much better than Kindle Unlimited.
  • The Libra Colour allows me to annotate directly on the page of ebooks, which will be great for revising my novels.  (But if that doesn't work for me because of the small screen, I can continue to use the Kindle Scribe for that without sending Amazon any more money — although I'm also considering eventually getting the Kobo Elipsa 2E for its larger screen.)

There are also a few things that I will miss about the Kindle:

  • No more automatic updating of Goodreads
  • No more saving of highlights in Goodreads
  • The option of annotating epubs in text boxes on the Scribe (why can't the Kobo offer both?)
  • No more sharing ebooks with my husband

While I will miss these things, there are some workarounds.  For instance, I've signed up with both Storygraph and Fable as alternatives to Goodreads.  But more importantly, none of these things are worth sending money to a company that kowtows to the current administration by eliminating open support for DEI.

As an author, my decision may be a little different.  I will still likely make my books available on Kindle, but rather than starting out publishing exclusively with Kindle, as I'd planned, I'm going to look into publishing "wide" from the very beginning.  It's also worth noting that Kobo has its own authors program, and I will likely check that out as well.

One final switch worth mentioning is that I will be pulling back from the Amazon Affiliates program.  For now I'll leave existing ads up on my blog, but eventually those will come down as well.  I hope to find other affiliate programs to use instead.

There is, of course, always the hope that Amazon will realize they have impacted their bottom line more than they've saved face with the current administration.  The article about "supporting DEI without saying DEI" does read like they are walking back their initial decision, perhaps under pressure from disgruntled customers.  But unless they announce a full return to DEI and put the inclusion language back in their policies and on their website, I won't be returning to them as a customer.

There are admittedly some drawbacks making a major switch like this.  Our dependence on Amazon was pretty extreme, spanning everything from everyday purchases to reading to music to viewing.  Fortunately, the vast majority of the money we spend (or spent) with Amazon are based on convenience rather than necessity.  Here are a few of the things I have or will be switching to other sources:

  • Ebooks and reading subscriptions
  • Music streaming
  • TV streaming
  • Grocery and necessity purchases
  • Pet food
  • Business purchases

If nothing else, this may save me some money on impulse buys, or at least funnel my impulse buys toward small businesses on Etsy and eBay.  In other words, while the transition away from Amazon may be challenging, I suspect in the long run I will be glad for the opportunity to discover — and support — other options.

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